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It is in the focus on how to win a race that the driver crosses the finish line… not on focusing on the reasons why wining is not possible.

From my own experience, every time I resent, or complain about the way another person is BEing, it is like taking out the trash, but first attaching a bungee cord to it… so before I can even turn around, I find myself covered by a huge bag of hurling garbage that ricocheted back at me. And most of times, it is with the very same words that I tossed out to begin with.