Because you love the client so deeply, you want the best for them. You have heard their dreams. When you read somebody’s list of what they most want to accomplish in their life, on that list is probably going to be the way they want to serve, be a good mother, or a good wife, a great father, or a good husband. That is tangible and touching. You hear their innermost dreams that they hardly dare to dream.
In your own relationship, perhaps you can discover how you can practice I see you – I take a stand – I love you. What are the ways that you have been compromising, blaming yourself for your reactions to your partners’ behavior? Do you see your partner completely, in their triumphs as well as their defeats, in weakness as well as in strength?