I have exceptionally good hearing. Usually that’s a good thing. However, on some days it’s horrible. On some days the normal sounds of living are excruciatingly loud noises to me and I want to climb into a hole and bury myself in it. On those days I am unruly and short tempered. I am more than difficult to be around.
I hate to be the one to break it to you, but there is a war brewing in the Middle East. People are already dying. There’s a lot of other bad stuff going on in the world too. But this war thing, it’s a big deal. It’s all over the news, as it should be. However, most well practiced deliberate creators will say, “I’ve sworn off the news and media. I’m not going to focus on bad news. I’m going to manage my vibration better than that.” In fact, most sane people, deliberate creators or not, are a little or alot news phobic.
It’s a question I get asked often. How do I know? Is this is my soulmate? There are probably as many answers to that question as there are askers. However, for me, part of what helped me define
There is great and immense beauty in the depths of a breakup or the sorrow of profound loss. It is in those places, those seemingly dark places where many of us see ourselves for the first time.
I recently read an article that was an indictment of the personal growth field. It went so far as to say the personal growth field was a field of broken dreams and broken promises. In my experience though, what’s broken is the resolve to change. Everyone is looking for the overnight fix or the magic pill or tool that’s easy. However, tools don’t change anything, if you’re not willing to change, as in to be permanently different. You can’t throw a new tool or process at your life for a couple weeks or a month and then go back to being the same as you were before and blame the tool when nothing is different.
Thinking you know how something will unfold or how someone will behave doesn’t create security unless you like your predicted outcome. Otherwise it simply keeps you stuck.
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Culturally it’s something most couples strive for – Unification. They work hard to merge and meld into a collective new thing that didn’t exist before they were together. The problem is when two people disappear entirely, or even in part, into a relationship, the two people who fell in love in the first place are gone.
Do people chose to be gay?
Who cares? Both the question and the answer are irrelevant because in the light of love, nothing but the love itself matters.
In the personal development and spiritual communities there is a consensus that self talk, that inner dialog, has a tremendous amount of impact on your life. In fact, some would go so far as to say your inner dialog creates your experience in it’s entirety. The outer dialog however, may have even more impact. Some cultures believe the spoken word weaves a spell. At the very least, the spoken word channels energy and directs attention and energy flows where attention goes.
One of the questions we hear most often is, “How do I get over this breakup?” In this blog Lisa Hayes guides us on a journey of getting over a break up by using extreme self care…
The truth is everything we love will be gone someday. You can’t hold on to anything tight enough to keep it from changing. The painful acting of clawing onto something in an effort not to lose it, in and of itself prevents you from enjoying it.
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