I see often clients who want something or have a goal and they have many beliefs about that goal. They know how it’s supposed to show up and where and what it’s going to look like. They become so focused on these details that they miss the opening to the very thing they want because it doesn’t look like they expected. When you surrender, you let go, you release the limits you placed around the thing that you desire. You broaden your scope and let the path light up.
December 19th, 2009
Just typing the date creates sensations in my body, pressure in my chest, pain in my heart. It’s gotta be the worst day of my life. The day my husband died. My body has a physical reaction to a date on a page. My mood worsens. I’m feeling sad. It’s a terrible day. But it’s not the day that creates all this; it’s what I have made that moment mean. The day everything changed. Terrible things. Sad Things.
We are all right where we need to be to get what we need. We are continually calling to ourself that which we most want to learn, heal, and evolve about ourself. We are all apart of this big evolutionary process.
Mothering a child is hard. Mothering a child through the loss of a father harder still. The biggest challenge I have faced as I find a way to grieve and heal is to lead my children though the same journey, and support them in their process. There is no normal face of grief on a child, a typical grieving path.
We can all give others the gift of words. If it’s a quick text, a thoughtful card, or in conversation building a platform for someone to leap to their dreams. Words have incredible power and they can hurt but they can also transform into possibilities.
Do you feel limited, listen to others opinions of what you should and shouldn’t do? Jodi Salata encourages us to stop shoulding on ourselves, break the chains and step into our personal freedom…