To be born without pain

To give birth and be born is about focus and collaboration between two conscious souls. A birth process can be painful for both mother and child if there is no “teamwork”.
The teamwork disappeared when the women started to give birth at birth clinics and were laid down with their legs up.
This is unnatural for both mother and child. Even more unnatural is the monitors and the surveillance during child birth. And the worst part is that the mother no longer is able to listen to her body, instincts and intuition in the birth process.
She is told by the health professionals what to do (sometimes even ordered), and this has alienated her from her own natural instincts.

To give birth is regarded at many modern hospitals as a disease.
Furthermore she is sedated and given painkillers. Both she and the child become “spaced out” in the birth process. She is bereaved something as beautiful as the conception, giving birth in joy, BLISS and orgasm.

A baby can bring with it this feeling of being distant into adulthood and even for the rest of the life. Andiran is still focusing on letting go of the results of sedation from his own birth, in order to incarnate completely into his physical body.
The endorphins, nature`s own sedative which we can bring forth from within, are absent in the modern birth process. And it is this lack of endorphins that can create panic for the child and the mother.

We can learn from Nature, however. Have you observed how wild animals give birth ? (It seems like domestic animals are having more and more complicated births, as if they somehow have taken over the human panic).
They are fully present, as if in meditation – both mother and offspring are in a trance….

What have we done with this sacred initiation ?
Why have we stolen the natural birth process from the women ?
Why have we taken away the possibility for our children to be born without suffering ?

I remember when I was born into this incarnation.

I could feel the warmth from my mother`s hands, stroking her beautiful belly. I could here her whispering to me:

“ We will soon meet – little darling ! “

I was so happy, and I could feel a soft blanket enveloping me. The sound of the blood was loud – and I felt like hovering with joy. The soft blanket tucked me in, tighter and tighter. It was comfortable, because my body was shaped like a wedge with the head in the narrow part. The blood was rustling like a melody around me, quicker and quicker, a song that embraced me more and more. The cells were illuminated, shining like sparkling gold around me.

The blanket squeezed me tighter and tighter for every contraction my mother had. I could feel some pressure on my head, down my face and further down my wedge-shaped body. The soft blanket and the contractions had prepared me gradually, until I was ready to embark through the birth channel.
Now I was in a trance. My mother`s body and my body were like One. She and I danced. She moved her hips around and around in a clockwise direction, I moved slowly in a spiral, letting the Universal gravity lead me like a ballerina…
She felt joy, I felt joy…

The pressure on my head disappeared, suddenly my face was in a brand new world, a world with too much light and noise (We are told that newborns neither see nor hear, but I did from day 1, and so did my 3 children).
I recognized one face – my mother`s. I could only see the upper part of her face, but that was enough, it was her !
I smiled and my mother cried:

“ Look – she is smiling ! Her eyes are open – she is looking at me ! ”

I was even happier and wanted to shout : “ Here I am !!! “

Suddenly the doctor and midwife panicked. They got hold of my neck and pulled me out quickly. I felt an excruciating pain in my neck, I heard a sound like something was cracking.
The pain was unbearable, and in the next moment I was hanging upside down and they were slapping my bottom. So much pain, in the neck, on my bottom, in the hips, in my knees and ancles.
I gasped for air, I did not like to be here!
I had felt bliss inside my mother, and now suddenly I had arrived at this brutal place.
What a drag !
They cut the umbilical cord in panic, and the consequence was that I was forced to breath before my lungs were ready. The umbilical cord is not supposed to be cut until the baby has started to breath in a natural way, which may happen after minutes, but also some times hours later.
The placenta produces the oxygen for the baby, coming through the vibrant and strongly pulsating umbilical cord, THE CORD OF LIFE.
When the baby takes her first breaths the pulsing of the umbilical cord will gradually decrease, and only then should it be cut, if it should be cut.
In Lotus births the umbilical cord is not cut at all – the umbilical cord and the placenta is nourished until it is released by the infant`s body – which may take five days.

Why have we humans created so much panic, fear and control ?
No wonder the world is in such a mess.
Humans have a natural instinct to give birth – to be born – and to LIVE…

The health professionals panicked because I was smiling and I had my eyes open when my head came out. A case that probably had not been written about in any University book ?
The fearful people damaged my neck, tore apart a sinew and stretched another.
I was given the diagnosis Torticollis.
With pain and a handicapped body I was laid to my mother`s breast. The lungs stung in pain, since I was forced to breath before I was ready.
But the LOVE from my mother calmed me down and I was thinking:

“ Dear mum – hold me tight ! Protect me from these strange and scary people, they do not know what they are doing ! “

My grandmother gave birth to 5 sons, two of them she gave birth to alone in the forest during World War 2.
She told me that a birth is a beautiful collaboration between mother and child, and that the pain can be transcended using the right techniques.
She followed her instincts and did what her body told her to do.
Her children were born in peace and joy.

I had the good luck to observe my sister, when she gave birth to her fourth child, and this experience made me think.
She gave birth as easily, quickly and painlessly as our cat. My sister was calm, she breathed and focused…and the baby just slid out…after just a few minutes with contractions.
It was so awesome to witness what I had been longing for deep inside, but which I thought was not possible in our day and age.
Everything happened in peace, joy and harmony. And the little one came out with eyes wide open and a big smile.
Quietly she was resting at my sister`s breast, she was not crying….she just smiled and was pleased.
My sister did not struggle at all during the birth process – she gave birth in an orgasmic bliss….

Some years later I myself experienced orgasmic birth with my third child, it was just awesome !
I had previously had 2 tough birth experiences because I left everything in the hands of the professionals.
This 3 rd time, however, I decided to give birth in joy and orgasm, I decided to be the boss ! And this time everything was fantastic !

A few years before my third birth I watched the movie ” Little Buddha “ – about the life of Buddha. In the movie we could see that the baby was born with a smile on his face, and that his mother was in bliss.
It is possible to give birth like this.
Children can be born without suffering.
Mothers can give birth without pain and without medication.

Women around the world are giving birth in an easy way, we have just not been listening to these women.
Why?
What kind of knowledge is hidden for us?

A child can be born without pain.
We can choose it.
It is all up to us – the mothers.
It is about consciousness.
We can CHOOSE to be CONSCIOUS.

– Pearl Shanti

Enclosed is a link to a video from a birth in peace, harmony and meditation…without sedatives and without pain….and without struggling…

You will love this – because this is the most beautiful evidence caught on tape that we have seen so far….

Feel free to visit our blog www.enlightenedchildren.com

We have also started a new Page on Facebook – “How to give birth as a Goddess”
In addition to our Page Conscious Parenting – feel free to visit us.

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Author’s Bio

Pearl Shanti and Andiran are the Founders of the fan page Conscious Parenting on Facebook.
They are regular contributors on SelfGrowth.com, USA – with more than 1,2 million members.
Moreover they write articles for several alternative magazines all over the world.
They live a holistic life style on their organic farm in the mountains, with home school for their children.
The children are their passion – and their vision is to improve the conditions for the children in the world.

” We LOVE to help people improve their lives – and to help families to live in harmony, LOVE and health.
The best thing ever is to help others to the life they dream about.
The children are the greatest treasures on earth – and it is our purpose to help parents become more conscious and support their children to bring forth their highest potential.
Life is a joy – and not a struggle…
Our experiences in our own life have shown us that conscious parenting works. We are here to serve in a truthful and humble way.”
–Pearl Shanti and Andiran

Written by Pearl Shanti Lodur-Lionheart and Andiran Lionheart

Bio:
Pearl Shanti is the Founder of the fan pages Conscious Parenting, Pure From Within, Holistic Life Style, Hearts for a new Life Foundation, Pearl Shanti Happpy, crazy and me, How To Give Birth as a Godess, and the group ♥ Let`s Start a Conscious Parenting Movement ♥ on Facebook, and the blog www.enlightenedchildren.com.

She is a regular parenting contributor for Selfgrowth.com, USA.
Moreover she is one of 7 experts who are co writhers of the book “For the love of our children “- about children with special needs.
http://fortheloveofourchildren.com/ebook.html

Pearl Shanti writes contributing articles for several alternative magazines in Norway and in other countries.
She has been interviewed by major newspapers in Norway and been a guest at national and international radio shows.

She presently lives a holistic life style in Malacatos, Loja- Ecuador – with home school for her son Leopold.
Pearl Shanti is psycic and has seen other dimensions her whole life.

After being a successful business woman for several years, she gave up this in order to go deeper into the spiritual world she had been seeing since childhood.

Pearl Shanti is a Reiki Grand Master, healer, rebirther, heart opener, animal whisperer, nutrition consultant, Feng Shui advisor, herbal specialist, author, coach, philosopher, metaphysician, French Gourmet Chef, children listener, artist, workshop facilitator, The Melchizedek Method facilitator, raw food specialist and life a alchemist and most of all mother for 3 lovely children, 7 -17 and 27, and she is grandmother for 3 beautiful boys
She has been a healer for more than 30 years, had her own healing center and ashram – and she is an expert on survival skills and living from Mother Nature`s resources for several years in the deep forests in Norway.

She has been living on prana/light and knows that everyone decide how many years they want to stay in their physical body and that death is an illusion.

Pearl Shanti has been wanderer on this planet. She has lived in Norway, Spain, India, Nepal, Sri Lanka, England and now Ecuador in the Andes.

This youthful grandmother has lived in ashrams in India and found a previous lifetime in Spain.She has climbed Mount Kailash, met wild elephants in the jungle in Southern-India and bathed in the holy Ganges.

Moreover she practices yoga, pranah yoga, karma yoga, meditation and study The Law of Attraction. Pearl Shanti focuses on building good karma and to live a conscious lifestyle in an natural way with pure simplicity .

With her big heart she has been helping people all over the world, and she has consciously incarnated here on earth to share from her deep selfless wisdom.

The children in the world, including her own, is her passion – and her vision is to improve the conditions for the children by inspiring others to become MORE Conscious Parents.
The children are the greatest treasures on earth – and it is her purpose to help parents support their children to bring forth their highest potential, to be happy and healthy.
Her philosophy is that ALL the children on this beautiful planet are our responsibility – not just our own kids.

Pearl Shanti`s calmness and tolerance makes it easy for children to confide in her- they know that she can see them for who they truly are.When working for the school Nature Kids in England these abilities were especially useful.

To be parents is a blessing and a gift when we regard life as a joy – not a struggle…
Her experiences in her own life have shown that conscious parenting works.

She is here to serve in a truthful and humble way.
Moreover her desire is to help motivate parents in improving their lives – to assist families to manage their lives with harmony, LOVE, health and spiritual growth.

All parents do the best they know how. Pearl Shanti is not here to promote “superior” parenting or lofty ideals. She only wants to inspire parents to become more conscious and find solutions that work.

Pearl Shanti Lodur-Lionheart is a wayshower in the new parenting paradigm – guiding parents all over the world in her most important “call” from her heart…
The new parenting paradigm will create a new world as One Family – and it is our task as parents to become the change we want to see in the world.

In her own words:

“We, the parents, are the children’s future and hope … We are the change … and changes can happen quickly if we work together … We ALL do the best WE KNOW HOW …
THERE’S always more that will make us even better at what we do !! But it’s not about what we could have done, should have done , or what we continue to do , but about what we are able to do now and CHOOSE TO DO NOW WITH WHAT WE NOW KNOW !!!! ”

“Pearl Shanti oftentimes encounters aggressive and frustrated parents – parents who feel lack in their lives and projects their pain on Pearl Shanti.She has a feeling of defenselessness, calmness and understanding, and she is thus able to give a useful and loving reply – no matter how aggressive or hostile the comment is. Peace is her defense – and this approach gives the parent room for insight and self-reflection, and in this way the parent is invited to take responsibility and be open for a new way to look at a situation.”-Andiran Lionheart

To quote Pearl Shanti:

“There are never problems, only tasks to be solved.”
And by her gentle guidance many parents will eventually see the solutions in their own life – as well as in their relation with their children.”

“I am here to awaken the wisdom you already have within you”
–Pearl Shanti

Pearl Shanti has recently started the charity program Hearts for a New Life Foundation, which helps young single mothers in Ecuador to a better life.
You can read more about that on this home page: http:/www./heartsforanewlife.org

Moreover she has published books about parenting in collaboration with Hive Pubications.
Here are the links:

http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fintention1111.weebly.com%2F&h=hAQGqgo8X

http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Fthehivepublications.weebly.com%2F&h=hAQGqgo8X

https://www.facebook.com/observingthesoundsoftheworld