The veil between this world and the next is very thin. As a medium, I have the ability to see
beyond that veil and communicate with the Spirit World. I treat it with the utmost respect and
never abuse the privilege that’s afforded to me.
As I raise my own vibrations to make a connection, I always stop and honor their presence as I
blend with their energy. I get to see and feel a soul in its entirety, youthful, beaming, and luminous
even if it’s for the briefest of moments. I celebrate their joys and their sadness, as well as their
love. I am truly blessed to do this work, but I’ve never considered it as a job. The people who
receive a message through me from loved ones on the Other-Side often tell me what a beautiful
gift they’ve just received, but in reality I’m the one who’s received the ultimate gift. It’s a chance
for me to honor my soul purpose of being all that I can be as a spirit messenger to help others in
their time of need.
Communication and closeness with departed loved ones is also possible without sitting with a
medium. So many people come to see me and express how much they’d love to connect with the
Other-Side for themselves, rather than receiving the information secondhand.
To experience your own communication firsthand, it’s important to become aware. For example,
the next time you’re thinking of someone who’s passed over, it could be because at that exact
moment, they’re lovingly thinking of you too. Be aware of each time you think of them and keep
an open mind. As always, I urge you at the start to keep a record of your experiences in your
journal.
A beautiful story of this child’s belief in the power of thought illustrates my point perfectly. It
revolves around a little girl named Daisy who passed to spirit at the very young age of ten.
During her last days, Daisy looked up and told her mother that she was communicating with her
little brother who had passed years earlier. In fact, Daisy told her mother that the little boy was
standing right beside her and the two were having quite a lively conversation.
“How do you speak to your little brother? I don’t hear or see you moving your lips,” asked the
bewildered mother.
The grinning little girl answered: “We talk with our think.”
Also there are ADC’s (After Death Communications), which happen frequently, even though you
may be unaware of them. ADC’s are signs from those on the Other-Side. They can visit you in a
dream, play with electricity by dimming lights, turn off televisions, stereos, cell phones, etc. Since
they are energy it is easy for them to work with electrical energy. They often leave feathers, shiny
pennies, and dimes.
Nature is a wonderful tool that Spirit uses too. Butterflies, hummingbirds, ladybugs, birds, you
name it – when they want to get a message to you. They’ll do anything to get your attention to
say:” I am here, I love you and I am safe.”
We just have to be more aware of the signs and synchronistic events they put before us.
Trust me when I say: “They want to talk to you – as much as you want to talk to them.”
JOHN’S LESSON
Is someone trying to get your attention from the Other-Side? Would you like to get a sign
yourself? If so, then simply ask for one. Reach out with your thoughts and love to the person you
would like a sign from.
Firstly, the most obvious way they’ll communicate is through your dreams, so watch and record
your dreams, and notice if there are symbols that keep showing up in front of you. Are there other
ADC’s happening around you? By acknowledging them, you’re actually letting them know on the
Other-Side that you’re receiving what they’re trying to send you.
Also remember, they take their cues from you. If you’re emotional or still going through a
bereavement, then it’s more than likely that they’ll wait to send you a sign, knowing that it might
upset you at this sensitive time. Equally, they might go to a friend, or another relative to give you
a message.
Be open to any sign that they may send. If you do in fact get an ADC and you’re not sure who’s
sending it, then ask: “If this is you Mom, then send me another one of the same signs.”
Just remember – love is everlasting, and neither death, nor time, or even distance can ever
separate us from the ones we love.
We are and always will be connected.
HEAVEN’S CALLING CARDS
When you become known for a familiar saying, it’s almost like a trademark. I guess mine has to
be: “Those on the Other-Side want to talk to you as much as you want to talk to them!” Spirits
have a multitude of ways they use to get your attention, but for many people, these little signs
often go unrecognized. Whether you’ve wrapped yourself in a protective shield due to a recent
loss, or you’re totally immersed in the business of work and life, it’s easy to simply miss those
little signs and symbols that they’re trying to send you.
Of all the things I do, I love teaching my psychic development workshops. I get to watch people
at the start of the weekend in a state of complete unawareness transform over the two days, and
develop a whole new consciousness. I see them forge new connections, not only with themselves
(and their class mates), but with their loved ones on the Other-Side. There are many different
types of messages, signs, and symbols (which come in come in all shapes and sizes), which our
loved ones use to tell us that they not only love us, but that they’re still connected to us. They
can easily be missed in the wink of an eye. Another one of my popular sayings that I often use is:
“Neither time nor death can ever separate us—love is truly everlasting.”
Let’s be clear about what exactly these signs and symbols are known as. They’re called ADC’s
(After Death Communications). These ADC’s come in many forms and it’s important to stress
here, that they’re not facilitated through a psychic or a medium, or using a tool of any kind. These
are spiritual experiences, which just happen spontaneously and are usually quite personal.
I believe that when a loved one passes on, and enough time passes for them to settle, that they’ll
often do everything in their power to get your attention. When they do send a sign, what are they
trying to tell us? Simply that their spirit continues to exist, and that they love us and want us to
continue to live our lives to the fullest.
When someone passes and leaves this world, the usual forms of communication get interrupted
for a time, until a new form of communication is established. Of course, there’s often a learning
period of how it all works. There are so many different ways that those on the Other-Side will try
to communicate to get your attention.
In my latest book The Spirit Whisperer – Chronicles Of A Medium, I list many signs and symbols
that those on the Other-Side send to us. Beside dreams and smells, which are probably two of
the most common that I hear about, there are other ways and means they’ll use to send you
signs, symbols, or even a full message. It could be as simple as a touch on the shoulder, a kiss
on the cheek, or a tousle of your hair, a tingle up your spine, a sudden scent of a certain cologne
or flower, finding shiny pennies, synchronistic events, even flickering lights!
When they really want to get your attention, they’re going to do whatever they can to get your
attention, so you’re aware of them and acknowledge that they’re still connected to you and that
they’ll always love you!
JOHN’S LESSON
If you want to strengthen the connection with a loved one, and become more aware, I find it best
to get away from the outside world and spend some quiet time with yourself. I find it helpful to put
out the happiest pictures of your loved ones in front of you. Notice that shining light in their eyes,
the smile on their face, how healthy and happy they look, for in reality that is how they truly are
now.
When you feel you’re really open and ready to receive a sign, put a loving thought out to them.
Ask them to show you a sign – one that you’ll know is from them. Please keep an open mind, so
you don’t have set expectations of what you want it to be. It may be the same sign over and over,
or it could be different every time. Trust me, they’ll know when you’re ready and how best to get
your attention.
No matter what ADC you may receive, they’re always meant to be loving, joyful, and a positive
experience, ones that give hope and comfort, and are usually received exactly when you need it.
They shouldn’t be scary, frightening, or cause you grief.
Be thankful for them, cherish them, and hold them close to your heart, for they truly are calling
cards from heaven.
15 comments
Thank you so much with teaching and giving so much od yourself to teach us. I felt my dad leave his body when he crossed over and that’s something no one will take from me
needed this. sincere thanks…
this is just what i have known for a long time that my parents and brothers and sister have been close to me all these years with a smell
Thank you. Iam going to try this. I miss my dad so much. I wish i knew back in my younger years what i know now.How life is full of memories and thats all we have..Thank you again for the article. Im gonna buy your book too..
How can I connect with them? Sometimes I see the signs, sometimes I don’t.
Do they see my way of connecting? Do they hear me? Do they understand me? I wish we could talk …
Hi, John. My Dad passed away five years ago. Three days later, I started getting signs from him. There was no doubt in my mind, it was so bizarre, I started keeping a journal that first year. My Dad’s name was George, which I thought was an uncommon, outdated name. But almost every day something would happen using the name, George. It was at restaurants, churches, car dealerships, school, towns, etc. I only told a couple of people, one was my cousin because I knew she would understand. I took her out to lunch for her birthday that year and let her choose the restaurant. She chose a Mexican restaurant. The waiter came over and introduced himself as, “Jorge”, which is Spanish for George. My Dad knew that and I felt it was his attempt at humor for us. Even though I wrote all of these things down, I never need to refer to my journal because I remember all of these occasions so vividly. They still happen and it’s been extremely reassuring these past five years!
I started to see them recently and I communicate clearly with them. After I read your short article, I now know I am in tune. By the way I am deaf, we have a website called”Deaf. Spirtual Network” on facebook.
I sppreciate your down to earth delivery of information. Thanks John, God bles you!
My Mom Passed over 4 years ago,I have had constant visits from her in my dreams.My dad has been sick and last week she visited him in his dream,he said he died and mom was there to greet him in this big place like a room but it wasnt a room,she gripped his hand tightly and was so happy to see him…Im scared,my interpetation from the dream is she is telling him his time is near and shes coming to get him. Im happy they will be together again but im going to misss him so much!
Thanx’ a ton John for the wonderful message you have conveyed through this writing…..i do not have words to express my joy….so much to understand as to how our dearest soul connects to us….something i have very much felt n now it gets clear as to it is the connection with our dear one’s….thanx’ once again…..
Hello John thank you for the article! My son passed away 3 years ago then some other family members soon after. Now I have gotten a clear message from my brother who’s recent passing was only a year ago in June I don’t feel that I have gotten any messages from my son it’s hard for me to tell I don’t know if he realizes how much I love him I’m sure by now that he should my question is how can I tell the messages apart from whom they come from? Thank you very much this touches a drape space in my heart!!
Thank you John for giving me an insight to spirits, I lost my husband Jon 10 months ago, he was my life,soulmate he died at 47 years old, and I would love to see him in my dreams, but unable to dream. I would love this to happen, but its not. Is there a reason for this, I thought that he would, he came into my daughters dream but not mine, I’m happy that she has seen him but I would love this experience.
Hi there I lost my mom 4 years ago, since then I have went through a lot in my life. After her passing I’ve wasted 2 years of my life drinking trying to forget the pain. I’ve hurted so much bcz at the time of my mothers death, it was unbareable to see, I witnessed my mothers passing right in front of me. It was a un natural death and to this day we don’t know why she left us. I have 4 other siblings I’m the second oldest, I’ve tried to keep my younger siblings the best way I could after my mom passed. I felt like I had to fill her shoes, in which I put so much on my shoulders. I was 17 when she passed I am now 21 I don’t drink anymore in fact I value my life more than I ever have. All those years I’ve wasted I’m ashamed bcz I know my mother seen me drunk, and how angry & deppressed I’ve got. I wish I could talk to her but I feel ashamed.. I miss my mother every day. My siblings have gotten a chance to talk to her through a local medium. And she gave them some things to tell me. But I wish so badly I can have this experience. I need to hear my mothers words.. Maybe then I can fully move on with my life & be my happy self again.
I feel a touch on my left cheek when my mum is around and a feeling of pressure in my right ear when it is dad. I also feel sometimes a touch on the top of my head and I think it is my grandmother who died before I was born. When I was going through a bad time she appeared to me and was with me all night. I believe that ‘spirit’ often wakes me usually with an odd noise but it is usually very hard to understand what they want and I wish I knew how to interpret everything.
I found John’s message very inspiring and made me fill up – so many people think you are nuts if you have these beliefs.
I feel my mum’s touch on my left cheek and my dad with a different pressure in my right ear. I sometimes feel a touch on my head and believe it is my grandmother who died before I was born. She appeared to me and stayed with me all night when I was going through a bad time. I have had other psychic experiences. Spirit often wakes me during the night but I cannot always interpret what they want and some of it just seems like nonsense and I wish I knew how to understand them better. I found John’s message inspiring and made me fill up as so many people think you are nuts if you believe in this . It was good to read the other comments and know that others feel the same.