The irony is most people want to attract ‘things’ to themselves, so they learn tools and ‘techniques’, whether it be the Law of Attraction or other disciplines. They work and focus on how they can get that which they want on the ‘outside’.
The irony is, it’s to do with the within.
They chase things on the outside, and then they find they have more to chase, the feeling perpetuates. Some have a feeling of lack which they want to fill by having something on the outside, whether it be a relationship, money, or something else. But they still feel the ‘hole’.
In truth, and in my opinion, it starts with finding yourself, or your ‘Self’. The spirit and the divine that you are. That’s how I like to teach it, find what’s within, and you find what’s with-out (that’s why my book is called “Find You, & You Find Everything”!)
How do you find the divine within you? The answer is actually in WHAT YOU WANT! Actually, it’s not in what you want but WHY you want it! Why do you want what you want? What’s the motivation? What are the essences? Do you want money so you can FEEL happy? Free? Fulfilled? Delighted? All these aspects are fragments of energy that align you towards your divinity. It’s not about what you want, but the energetic reasons you have for wanting them.
Remember that you are a spiritual or energetic being having a physical experience. You are energy through and through. So what you are seeking on a physical level is for energetic reasons. It feels very real because that’s why you chose to have this physical experience, to have powerfully focused experiences.
So, when you think of what you want, ask yourself what are the energetic reasons behind it. You may be so habitual in your thinking about it that you may not be aware of the energetic reasons of why you want it. And when you know these reasons, allow yourself to FEEL and EXPERIENCE and LIVE them.
If you are wanting a relationship, how do you want to feel? Loved? Cared for? Alive? Realise that the goal is actually just a signpost for your energetic path.
The key really is in aligning to your energetic motivation behind the goal. In doing this, you will find your ” more and more as well as your flow. In looking to get the energy alignment the manifestations will come more easily (rather than chasing the goals but not being aligned to them energetically).
Ironically, as you focus inwards towards your ‘Self’, you actually increase your connection and your awareness to everything else. Your intuition improves and you will find your synchronicities and manifestations doing so also. “Find You, & You Find Everything.”