Notice how everything always seems to be so great in the beginning? Whether it’s a new relationship, friendship or a job…because it is new, fresh and exciting we are vibrating on a higher frequency. It’s not because everything and everyone is so absolutely perfect. We are elevated by the excitement of it all! All the possibilities of what may come into fruition by this new venture. We then start to fantasize about what’s to come. We fall in love with the potential, and somewhere along the line we begin to expect things to go a certain way.
If or when things don’t end up going as we had anticipated disappointment starts to set in and our resonating vibrations drop to a lower frequency. We begin to feel let down and start focusing on what we don’t like or want, instead of what we do. This amplifies the negative thinking which continues to lower your vibrational frequency. Next thing you know it you are attracting everything that you don’t want!
You become upset with your circumstances and blame the other person or employer for not living up to your expectations. This is where clarification comes in…instead of letting things get to this point, recognize when the initial feeling of disappointment sets in. Don’t let the negative thinking build up enough momentum to ruin a good thing. It’s all in how we choose to cope with the things we are unhappy with. We need to nip it in the bud so to speak.
Make time to talk to the person about what it is that is upsetting you. There are always two sides to every coin and it takes a lot of compromise from both parties to make things work. Team work makes the dream work. You have to give a little to get a little, and the more you give, the more you’ll receive. It’s important to set boundaries and clarify what those boundaries are. If you don’t draw a line in the first place, how does someone know when they are crossing it? You don’t have to wait for something bad or negative to happen to draw a line.
Clarification and compromise have to come first, before there can ever be any expectation. You both must CLARIFY what you want from each other, then be willing to COMPROMISE on what you are able to give, and then you set the EXPECTATION from there. This is very important to create a healthy relationship, otherwise the relationship becomes co-dependent, or it ceases to exist. We all need to both give & receive love, respect and compassion to succeed in anything.
If you clarify, compromise and set the expectation for something positive, successful & beautiful you’ll attract it! Wishing you much love & light…
Written by Sharlene
I am a spa owner, reiki practitioner, and a single mom. I strive to keep positive through life’s challenges. Positive people and pleasant surroundings are always beneficial for keeping our spirits lifted under any circumstance that comes our way 🙂 Always wishing you Love & Light!
