Many, many years ago, I gave myself time to ask this question of myself. Here are some of the questions I asked myself. Then I answered or filled in the blanks below. The answers are within you as well as myself. The truthful answers that is. There may be some possible reasons you are not and won’t be a success because you might hold these beliefs as truths for yourself:
a. I can’t believe it is possible for me to….fill in the blank
b. I don’t have………..fill in the blank
c. I keep saying I wish……
d. I have to wait for my kids to …..
e. I have to wait until I lose weight before I can…..
f. My boss doesn’t…….
g. I don’t have the right clothes to…..
h. I don’t know how to …….
Ego has a subtle and immature way of dealing with our success or lack of it. Ego wants to keep us in a blame mode outside of ourselves. That way, we won’t look at the truth inside of us and solve what we think is our problem.
Repeating the words above or other statements with feeling, belief or emotion cannot benefit you. They cannot assist you in your leap to the next dimension in consciousness. You will continue to experience your thought life through your thought experience until you decide to change your thinking paradigm or thought pattern. I realized through Spirit, that my idea is conceived first in Mind and then in actualization. I know now in consciousness what the truth is for me. I know It shall be and so I allow it to be so. I release it and act as if it already is.
You can be a success at whatever you decide to do just like I have. When we make our decision with our God Self, the God Doer, our creation becomes flawless. If our intention for success is pure, then it will benefit others in the invisible and visible realm. You will be given the ideas to act on until such time as your dream has pushed through the ethers and given birth to itself. It just needs your help in the delivery room by being there and being ready to cradle it and protect it and act on it. It doesn’t matter if someone says otherwise about your route to success. What you know about your success ideas is what is true.
When you immerse yourself in communicating with your Self, your I Am Presence, your Higher Self, you make your effort in obtaining your desire, effortlessly. All you have to do is invoke the assistance of our great Helper, our Universal Life Force, God. Our role then is to accept and know it is done unto us.
What is the Secret of Being a Success?
From Prentice Mulford, author Your Life Forces, “If, then, you think, or keep most in mind, the mere thought of determination, hope, cheerfulness, strength, force, power, justice, gentleness, order and precision, you will attract and receive more and more of such thought-elements. These are among the elements of success. These qualities of thought-element are as real things as any we see or feel. The more you set the magnet in this direction, the stronger it grows to attract these elements.” Find out right away, which one of these qualities above are missing links or that which may be keeping you out of the realm of success, according to your beliefs. The Universe honors every thought you have. It honors what we believe in strongly, whether right or wrong for us. Though these qualities are invisible, they are still things. They are energy. They are thought forms, a force which makes you very powerful in a quiet and gentle and unassuming way. The secret here is that you can only obtain this energy by giving up what does not serve you in this capacity and by magnetizing that which you do want to align with. (Permission granted to use excerpt from Prentiss Mulford’s book).
How Do I forgive?
If you have a burning hatred inside your heart and mind right now and desire to be free of this debilitating energy form, then take the next few minutes to sit quietly and take several deep breaths through the mouth. I suggest to my clients that this will allow God to work through their emotional chakra center (throat) through the breath. I have them do the following steps:
1. bring this person in mind, this condition or thing to mind after they take several deep breaths.
2. With their eyes closed, they look into the other’s eyes without any fear or hatred on their part.
3. I have them see or sense what they are trying to tell them through their eyes or Presence.
4. They must listen closely with their heart.
5. Breathe with them. Ask them for forgiveness for holding hatred towards them.
6. Tell them you release them and let them go through the Grace of God – even if that person is deceased.
One time a female client of mine held sadness for 34 yrs because her mother in-law had committed suicide and never came to her for help so she could have a chance to prevent it. She never forgave herself until 2 weeks ago in my center. She never realized her physical condition was due to the invisible thought form she was carrying within her heart and liver for all those years. You can still be forgiven when and after talking with the Higher Presence of someone deceased. Thank God for allowing this healing to take place over time and space easily and effortlessly. You will be and feel so relieved and free as if a surgical procedure had just occurred for you but it will be pain-free and drug free.
Another way to accomplish this same thing is to:
1. Write out your thoughts on a page or in a journal book.
2. Write each day for seven days, seventy times each day, “I forgive you (name of person, condition or thing) for your wrong doing” as you saw it or their wrong doing as you saw it.
3. Your Word is substance for you to spring your thoughts into manifestation, action and results.
4. You must decide to discontinue believing in lack, if you wish to change your outer world.
Does Clearing Away Clutter Make a Way for What You Do Want?
You bet. When you decide you want fresh clean energy into your aura, into your mind, into your spirit, you must clear away the energy thought forms that aren’t bringing the good you desire into your experience. You are what you think and there’s no getting around it. “As a man thinks, so is he.”
When you think lack, poverty, you believe it and so you prove it to yourself. When you think abundance, are abundance, believe abundance, that’s what the Universe goes about proving to you and presents to you. It also lovingly goes about proving to you your belief about being in lack as well are true. That is the way Universal Law works. The Universal Law about Gravity always works the same every second, every day every year. The Universal Law about the Cause and Effect and the Law of Attraction works in the same way.
So, if you want a change in your spiritual, mental environment, your career environment or relationships, you must make way for it by clearing away the spiritual and mental garbage of toxic thoughts and the Universe will of course come to your aid. You just decide with joy to release debilitating thoughts, negative thoughts, thoughts that take you away from your true purpose, your passion and the vacuum left allows peace, joy, bliss, clarity and freedom to take their places.
Is Selfishness Tolerated by the Universe?
Selfishness is not tolerated and cannot be tolerated and is not even recognized by the Universe. Energy just ebbs and flows like the ocean. Change is constant and when we try to hold onto and not allow anything in, our fingers are peeled open the hard way, sometimes developing into sickness, illness, unexpected separation, etc.
The more regularly you tithe for example, the more the Universe, Father Mother God Principle will pour out Its abundance upon you. It’s because you believe there is no limit to what you can receive. For instance, I can tithe 1/10 of my love, if that is what I need more of. I can tithe 1/10 of my time and that’s what I will receive more of. When I tithe 1/10 or more of my prosperity, I will receive that and more from the Universe. If you are holding your hand in a tight, clenched fist to keep your money from flowing out, you receive nothing because your hands are clenched and will not open willingly. You will just exist with money problems, struggling most of your life and wondering why.
When we tithe, we are agreeing that we are willing to believe and trust that more will be given unto us and that nothing will be taken from us as we give. As we give, so are we giving unto ourselves. Once you realize that you lose nothing by trusting, you shall be provided for at all times and be aware of that and give thanks.
How Can I Prove It’s Easy For Me to Demonstrate Money?
Take this statement to heart, meaning believe and know, “I am cleaning out the closets of my mind of all negativity. I am surrendering my lack consciousness. Money is the easiest thing for me to demonstrate. I love my creditors and I love myself for having creditors. I know and believe that Light and Prosperity envelop me and my creditors. My creditors and I are in a win-win situation now. I lovingly pay as I receive. I bless the Universe as it unveils ways and means for me to witness abundant living. My mailbox is a recipient of Divine Love and I affirm it brings only prosperity and it overflows with money, love letters of all kinds from the entire globe. I forgive myself for all the negative thoughts I’ve had towards my creditors and people who have owed me money.
Daya Devi-Doolin has a weekly radio show, The Only Way Out Is In www.blogtalkradio.com/padaran that airs every Thursday at 2 pm EST.
Written by Daya
She is an internationally known author and speaker of metaphysical and self-growth books and topics. Her inspirational speeches share her secrets for a successful life through an empowering thought system. She has assisted hundreds and hundreds of clients over the past 25 years. She is the best-selling author of, The Only Way Out Is In: The Secrets of the 14 Realms to Love, Happiness and Success!; Super Vita-Minds: How To Stop Saying I Hate You….To Yourself and a NABE Pinnacle Book Achievement Award Recipient for her books, The Only Way Out Is In: The Secrets of the 14 Realms to Love, Happiness and Success! and another NABE Pinnacle Book Achievement Award for co-authoring Americans Saving Ourselves Together: How to Thrive in the 21st Century. She’s received an EDC Creations Literary Award for The Only Way Out Is In book in the Non-Fiction/Motivational Category. She writes, performs and plays guitar under the Duo name of aka Level Seven with her husband Chris. Their music is distributed and sold by Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Padaran Publications and books distributed by DeVorss Company.
Her philosophy is “Thoughts are things. Thoughts are substance and form. They draw unto themselves the likeness of their form. We have the power by our Word to form all that we wish to create or mis-create.” ~Daya Devi-Doolin
