Dear Stars:

Hopefully you and your guides can point me in the  right direction.

I met a man over the internet. I felt an instant resonance with him and over the next two months and talked almost every night on the phone for hours.  We are so compatible it seems beyond belief. We met in person for three days. We are totally in love in a way I have never felt before. I have two children. My ex husband is not paying child support. Is it in everyone’s highest good for my new love to move in with me and pay rent?

Thank you so much for your help.

Debby

Dear Debby:

Thank you again for contacting me.  This is what the guides state:

We state no, it is not for your highest good to have this individual rent a room at this time.  We suggest you follow through with the court.  The court will enforce child support is correct.  We also suggest that you let the new individual in your life know that you want to continue to know him; but to have him live in the house is not possible at this time due to court proceedings.  After court is completed in your favor, we suggest you consult with the lawyer about the new individual moving in and paying rent (to see how it affects child support). Then clarity will be presented for all concerned and you will feel that choice about living with your new individual is not needed from necessity but from love (higher place).  That is the correct way.

Blessings, Stars

Dear Stars:

I have been searching for an answer in regards to my husband, Stan.  Should I stay with him?  It is not an easy relationship.  Thank you, Flora

Dear Flora:

Thank you again for your connection. Let’s see how we can be of help. The guide’s state:

There is a karmic relationship between you and Stan that is now being resolved.  We suggest marital counseling in strong fashion.  You are at a crossroads of many insights but have difficulty in using your insights to change patterns of behavior into resolving.  A therapeutic relationship between a therapist, Stan and yourself would help you travel into past relationships (of abuse) and help you understand that you cannot change Stan but change your responses towards Stan’s demands that appear challenging. What is occurring is that his demands appear unreasonable and your response is to close off what he wants (his type of communication is difficult) so that you become angry.  These situations need clarification with therapeutic help.  You cannot heal this by yourself.  That is the correct way.

Many blessings, Stars

Dear Stars:

My question concerns the value of staying a shorter or longer time overseas. I already have enough money to survive at least 2 yeas.

I’m not concerned about the risk of running out of money. My big concern is that I’ll spend more time here than is necessary and delay doing what I feel I was born to do for the planet which is to write. I know that having much more money in the bank can be useful in helping me on my career path. So the opposite concern is that I will return too soon before the cupboard is as full as I’ll need. If I come home too soon with too few resources, will that serve as a stumbling block to my writing

career?

Kindest Regards, Reginald

Dear Reginald:

It is wonderful for you that you know what your purpose is. Thank you so much for connecting with me. This is what the guide’s state:

Reginald is correct to continue staying for at least one year.  He will not come across financial headaches upon returning because of his very pragmatic stance he will assume regarding his living situation.  In other words he is very capable of making wise living and financial choices.  (getting family energy, feels like male feels like brother energy) In that he will have opportunity for business deal upon returning (getting publishing energy) and he will have an opportunity (to meet agent at some time oat writer’s meeting) the way he wants.  So that his endeavors are correct for humanity as he knows and understands internally, more is to become available from Sprit because of his choices.  He is clearly adept at knowing and understanding his vision and pragmatically going about the financing of his vision.  So what we suggest is the optimal energy to (experience is the energy) is to know that his choice of vision is correct, viable and will occur.  That is the correct way.

Blessings, Stars

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Hi Rochelle-

I was wondering if you might answer a question or two for me.

My parents are both deceased. Recently, I have been having many vivid dreams about my father. However, in my dreams it seems I seek him out but can never quite make contact with him. It is just a dream, but still frustrating as there was so much unresolved between us. I wonder if there is some message he is trying to convey, and I’m just not able to understand. I never got to know him too well in this life, and just want to feel that connection with him if possible. What can I do to become more receptive? Many changes are evolving in my life right now and I would like to know if there are any spirit energies around me that can give me that support I need right now and that I can connect with.

Thanks for your time, and for any thoughts.

Best regards,

Ron

Dear Ron:

Thank you for sharing and yes, I do think you can make a connection. The guides state:

You are correct to pay attention to your dreams.  Your father is coming through and your mother will someday soon as well.  You are aware that he has certain regrets (abandonment is the energy) in how he related to you.  He now wishes to have reconciliation with you but you must understand and know (we suggest) that you come to terms with a greater understanding:  his regrets stem from his being on our side.  He was not able to see and understand his withdrawn, detached behavior on your side as problematic.  He did not care for you in a proper manner because of his unresolved issue with (alcohol is the energy than father energy coming in which could indicate he had alcoholic father).  His own father was quite abusive and obstructed a hones relationship with him (got lying as an energy).  Your father therefore, was not able to form a honest relationship with you and continually told you parts of truths rather than the totality of the truth itself.  Your father now sees that he obstructed himself from great love.  He regrets his decision.  He comes through to let you he is healing.  He wants to heal his relationship with you.

Blessings, Stars

Dear Stars:

After more than 20 years as a single mom, I now find myself an empty-nester.  I am enjoying the “me time” and now that I have more freedom, I am ready for more from life.  I feel like there’s so much more that I can offer, but I can’t seem to get myself out of the rut.  I want to find both love and job fulfillment, but with each attempt, I hit a brick wall.  Do your Guides have any advice on how I can reach my potential in both arenas?

Thank you,

JMH

Dear JMH:

Thank you for coming to us.  This is an important question, a situation many woman experience.  Here is what the guides say:

You are correct to know and understand that meditation is key here.  Your being has disregarded your interests for many years.  You are correct to delve into your interests.  (Writing is the energy.)  You are  correct to regain interest in and within novel.  Your being does have aptitude for explaining mysteries and solving mysteries.  Why not make your interest a vocation rather than hobby?  You have ability to be able to become successful in this arena.  We suggest you join writing group (a nurturing group) and think of a plan to regain (restart is the energy) your novel.  Think also what you want to do can be completed.  Your stories can help people understand their relationship with themselves and their families in connection to love and to spirit.  You can finish what you set out to accomplish and you can reach success.  That is the correct way.

Blessings, Stars

Hello,

I’d like to please ask when will I be in a romantic relationship or renew a love affair with the biracial man I love.  I think he is my twin flame (he is a Scorpio) and it is hard to get things off the ground.

Thank you so much, and have a wonderful week!    Julie

Dear Julie:

Remember, all relationships start from the inside out.  Thank you for trusting us.

Here is what they say:

You are correct to move ahead in discovering what leads you into a pattern of situations that keep you involved with individuals who are not of trust.  Now this not of your fault or of your doing, but of the unconscious unresolved issues from child hood which kept mother at a distance due to feeling she was not of trust.  (very loud)  you had to do so because mother was alcoholic (is the energy) and not able to move into healing for herself because she was not willing to move out of denial regarding her disease.  You, however, can now see the issues of trust due to the pattern of relationships in your life, which are not of trust.  We suggest to move into a psycho social support group, such as Al Anon.  In doing to, you receive healing.  It is the focus upon yourself which now must happen (we suggest) for your healing to happen.

Blessings, Stars

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Dear Stars:

I hope you can help me.  I hope I don’t sound like I am crazy.  At night, there is a cloud in my room.  Sometimes, it smells like smoke.  When I wake up, I say, “what do you want?”  I turn on the light.  It then disappears.  Sometimes the clouds are close to my bed.  Can you give me guidance on this matter?   Thank you, Virginia

Dear Virginia:

Thank you for writing in, let’s see what all this means.

You are correct to know that the clouds are not of the light.  These low vibration  entities wish to compete for your life force.  They wish to have your life force to fuel their energetic resources.  You are correct to have your etheric body cleansed.  Your emotional body has been violated through childhood abuse.  The abuse, of course, is not of your being’s fault.  Begin to seek out a support system to help you know and understand you are not at fault for the abuse.  The abuse did not occur as a result of fate or of any intention upon your behalf.  The abuse was the choice of the abuser not to heal him self through recognition of your innocence and love.  He could have chosen a different choice,  however,  he chose wrong doing.  Your choice, we encourage you to make, is one of self understanding and guidance toward self love.  In doing so, your being heals your emotional body, the energy surrounding you and the clouds in your bedroom.

Blessings, Stars

Dear Stars:

I had a dream my senior year in high school. I think it had an impact on my life I would like to know if it did and how. Sean

Dear Sean:

Thank you for your support of our work.  OK, let’s see what this dream means:

You are correct to understand that death (dead is the energy) is related to and symbolic of transformation.  The transforming aspect of this dream (drowning is the energy) is related to your ability to know that your emotional involvement with your parents is overwhelming.  Once you understand consciously the occurrences and interactions with your parents, the (feelings of being overwhelmed) will become lessened.  Your being will then feel consciously in control of the abuse that occurred when (age two is the energy) and you will feel free enough to become attached to partner without the continuing experiences of abandonment arising within the relationship.  Your being is intelligent and sensitive.  Your being can overcome the abuse that occurred.  It will not harm you to overcome your past but will move you into another level of vibration which will transform your past.  That is the meaning of this dream.

Blessings, Stars

Dear Stars:

During the spring equinox, I brought in new energy during a spiritual ceremony to aid me in 5th dimensional work. Shortly thereafter a strange phenomena happened in my home. I was upstairs getting ready for the day, and called my 5 year old son to come up and get dressed. I heard his footsteps bound toward the stairs, abruptly stop, then continue up. He came to my room completely confused, asking, “Mom, were you just downstairs?” I replied no, I had been upstairs for quite a while. He told me he had just seen me downstairs, standing there, staring at him. Then I simply vanished. He mentioned that the only thing that was different were the clothes I was wearing. I later got dressed for the day, came downstairs and questioned him again on what he had seen. He started to respond but stopped, looking at my outfit. “Those were the clothes you were wearing, Mommy!” I knew he would say that. I took my son back to the exact place he saw me, and was pondering what happened. I then realized I was acting out exactly what he saw hours ago. Was it a time fold, wrinkle in time? Did I manage to be at two places at once? Or is it that my son can see into the future? The more I contemplate the scenarios, the more questions I have!

Hopefully you can shed some light on this.

Many thanks.

Lisa

Dear Lisa:

Thank you for sharing this fascinating experience!  Now let’s find out what it means.

You are correct to know and understand that the fifth dimensional work help see this dimension in a different, broader perspective.  Your being witnessed your son while upstairs getting ready from one place in time, while in another physical placement in time.  Time can be flexible, it can be stretched, bent and overlapped.  Your son, quite psychic (star energy) is what we call a sensitive.  He witnessed your being in another dimension (future).  Because you are now open to inter dimensional travel,  your being’s experience is not through with this type of occurrence.  It is just the beginning.  Your being is of course, able to see all that occurs in this dimension from the fifth dimension.  Your view has broadened.  Continue your work is the correct way.

Blessings, Stars

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