Are your beliefs holding you back?

Pain is what happens when your model of the world doesn’t match reality. Imagine you are in love with someone and have all kinds of belief about loyalty, love, and about that person in particular. What happens if they leave you? Pain! Where do you start to rearrange your beliefs about yourself and your concepts?

Assumptions

“The harder you fight to hold on to specific assumptions, the more likely there’s gold in letting go of them.” — John Seely Brown It is so easy to assume things. These seemingly innocent, simple thoughts can actually hold you back so much. We can assume that we know what somebody is thinking or feeling, [...]