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		<title>Comment on Let Go and Become All You Might Be! by Gretchen</title>
		<link>http://vividlife.me/ultimate/2010/03/03/let-go-and-become-all-you-might-be/comment-page-1/#comment-1863</link>
		<dc:creator>Gretchen</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 23:23:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you for this, Janice. I especially like the reminders in your last 2 points on letting go of grievances, remorse, regrets, anger and hate and not worrying about the future. Excellent.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you for this, Janice. I especially like the reminders in your last 2 points on letting go of grievances, remorse, regrets, anger and hate and not worrying about the future. Excellent.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Pinocchio Effect by Milana</title>
		<link>http://vividlife.me/ultimate/2010/02/18/the-pinocchio-effect/comment-page-1/#comment-1859</link>
		<dc:creator>Milana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 07 Mar 2010 15:01:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I, too, love your nose:)  Great article and a brave topic with a very important message.  Lies are damaging and hurtful, even if told to avoid hurting someone&#039;s feelings, because the end result undermines confidence, destroys trust, breads doubt and prevents one from an opportunity to &quot;fix&quot; their mistakes/flows and grow.  There is one type of lie that is a combination of CONTEXTUAL LIE and FABRICATION. I personally find this one the most damaging one of them all. That lie is GOSSIP.  This is when someone takes the information from one party, and without giving the second party a benefit of a doubt or an opportunity to have their side of the story be heard, passes judgment on that individual and than takes it upon him/herself to disseminate this skewed &quot;fun house mirror&quot; view of an individual amongst others.  The reason I find it is most damaging is because most of the time there is an actual intent to cause harm behind the action, and because often it has a devastating effect on the one who is on the receiving end.  Gossip has been known to break-up marriages, destroy relationships, cause people to lose their jobs, have mental/emotional break downs or even commit suicide.  The unfortunate thing is that we can not control other people&#039;s actions and words.  The fortunate thing is that we can control how we allow it to affect us and we can take actions to prevent this from happening again to us or to those we care about by practicing truth.  If we must spread information around, than lets spread LOVE, EMPOWERMENT AND ACCEPTANCE.  If we must talk about someone behind their back, than lets talk about how amazing, talented, caring and gifted they are.  Lets focus on the positive and lets put good intentions out into the Universe.
You are awesome. Thank you for this piece of brilliant wisdom.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I, too, love your nose:)  Great article and a brave topic with a very important message.  Lies are damaging and hurtful, even if told to avoid hurting someone&#8217;s feelings, because the end result undermines confidence, destroys trust, breads doubt and prevents one from an opportunity to &#8220;fix&#8221; their mistakes/flows and grow.  There is one type of lie that is a combination of CONTEXTUAL LIE and FABRICATION. I personally find this one the most damaging one of them all. That lie is GOSSIP.  This is when someone takes the information from one party, and without giving the second party a benefit of a doubt or an opportunity to have their side of the story be heard, passes judgment on that individual and than takes it upon him/herself to disseminate this skewed &#8220;fun house mirror&#8221; view of an individual amongst others.  The reason I find it is most damaging is because most of the time there is an actual intent to cause harm behind the action, and because often it has a devastating effect on the one who is on the receiving end.  Gossip has been known to break-up marriages, destroy relationships, cause people to lose their jobs, have mental/emotional break downs or even commit suicide.  The unfortunate thing is that we can not control other people&#8217;s actions and words.  The fortunate thing is that we can control how we allow it to affect us and we can take actions to prevent this from happening again to us or to those we care about by practicing truth.  If we must spread information around, than lets spread LOVE, EMPOWERMENT AND ACCEPTANCE.  If we must talk about someone behind their back, than lets talk about how amazing, talented, caring and gifted they are.  Lets focus on the positive and lets put good intentions out into the Universe.<br />
You are awesome. Thank you for this piece of brilliant wisdom.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Why Your Brain is like The Wizard of Oz by Mary Giuffre</title>
		<link>http://vividlife.me/ultimate/2010/03/03/why-your-brain-is-like-the-wizard-of-oz/comment-page-1/#comment-1856</link>
		<dc:creator>Mary Giuffre</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Mar 2010 12:21:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Irene! 
So great to see you here.  I&#039;ve never miss an opportunity to see this film.  Now its very obvious why.
Thanks for your insights.  Looking forward to hearing more from you.
~ Mare</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Irene!<br />
So great to see you here.  I&#8217;ve never miss an opportunity to see this film.  Now its very obvious why.<br />
Thanks for your insights.  Looking forward to hearing more from you.<br />
~ Mare</p>
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		<title>Comment on Cover-ups and the Power of Togetherness with Fred Burks LIVE Feb 17th 2pm EST by global transformation</title>
		<link>http://vividlife.me/ultimate/2010/02/16/cover-ups-and-the-power-of-togetherness-with-fred-burks-live-feb-17th-2pm-est/comment-page-1/#comment-1854</link>
		<dc:creator>global transformation</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 06 Mar 2010 04:02:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Comfort Zone or Jail? by secret of my life</title>
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		<dc:creator>secret of my life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 17:03:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Meah: My story of child loss and my journey through healing. by Alix Flood</title>
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		<dc:creator>Alix Flood</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 16:47:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Tina, 

As a fellow mother, I, of course completely empathize with your pain and loss -- though paradoxically, I can not begin to imagine it.  

It takes a profound amount of courage to find the gift that your grief gave you -- and then another profound amount of insight and fortitude to mine the gift and share it with the world.  

Thank you for sharing your moving story of love, loss, and forgiveness which ultimately sets a transcendent example.  
 
Love,
Alix</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Tina, </p>
<p>As a fellow mother, I, of course completely empathize with your pain and loss &#8212; though paradoxically, I can not begin to imagine it.  </p>
<p>It takes a profound amount of courage to find the gift that your grief gave you &#8212; and then another profound amount of insight and fortitude to mine the gift and share it with the world.  </p>
<p>Thank you for sharing your moving story of love, loss, and forgiveness which ultimately sets a transcendent example.  </p>
<p>Love,<br />
Alix</p>
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		<title>Comment on Awaken Your Devine Soul in Greece June 20 &#8211; July 02 by transformational journey</title>
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		<dc:creator>transformational journey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 14:17:06 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] dividing the journey into three distinct phases: incremental, substantial, and transformational. ...Awaken Your Devine Soul in Greece June 20 July 02 ...On this unforgettable journey through time, we leave behind the old ... In this truly [...]</description>
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		<title>Comment on Rediscovering Spirituality in Religion by Mary Giuffre</title>
		<link>http://vividlife.me/ultimate/2010/03/03/rediscovering-spirituality-in-religion/comment-page-1/#comment-1848</link>
		<dc:creator>Mary Giuffre</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 13:24:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hello Mark,

Thanks for your insights.  You are truly blessed if your experience with religion has brought you Spiritual fulfillment.

However, my up close and personal experiences with organized religion is what I know from the depth of my being, severed me from Source.  Yes there was community, but it was one driven by the fear of hell and the need to connect with our Divinity through a spokesperson, thereby cutting us off from our Source.  

People living a Spiritual but not Religious life have not been severed from Source, they are connecting through the international community in hundreds of ways, including local groups that do not require religious dogma to hold them together.

The statement “Spiritual but not Religious” was born out of a deep need for millions of individuals like myself and I’m most grateful for communities like this one that Shayne and Rose-Anne have created for us to share connect with other Spiritual Seekers.

In Love 
~ Mary Giuffre
VividLife.me Contributor</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hello Mark,</p>
<p>Thanks for your insights.  You are truly blessed if your experience with religion has brought you Spiritual fulfillment.</p>
<p>However, my up close and personal experiences with organized religion is what I know from the depth of my being, severed me from Source.  Yes there was community, but it was one driven by the fear of hell and the need to connect with our Divinity through a spokesperson, thereby cutting us off from our Source.  </p>
<p>People living a Spiritual but not Religious life have not been severed from Source, they are connecting through the international community in hundreds of ways, including local groups that do not require religious dogma to hold them together.</p>
<p>The statement “Spiritual but not Religious” was born out of a deep need for millions of individuals like myself and I’m most grateful for communities like this one that Shayne and Rose-Anne have created for us to share connect with other Spiritual Seekers.</p>
<p>In Love<br />
~ Mary Giuffre<br />
VividLife.me Contributor</p>
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		<title>Comment on Are You Socially Inadequate in Your Business? by Alison Prentice</title>
		<link>http://vividlife.me/ultimate/2010/03/03/are-you-socially-inadequate-in-your-business/comment-page-1/#comment-1847</link>
		<dc:creator>Alison Prentice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 13:11:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks Mary!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Mary!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Are You Socially Inadequate in Your Business? by Mary Giuffre</title>
		<link>http://vividlife.me/ultimate/2010/03/03/are-you-socially-inadequate-in-your-business/comment-page-1/#comment-1846</link>
		<dc:creator>Mary Giuffre</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 12:58:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Alison ~
Thanks for such valuable information.  Fan Page here I come!
Always love reading your insights!
~ Mary</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Alison ~<br />
Thanks for such valuable information.  Fan Page here I come!<br />
Always love reading your insights!<br />
~ Mary</p>
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