I’ve been trying to be soft about everything lately. I don’t believe in “right” or “wrong” only what is. I try to see the gray in all situations. I’m always growing, changing, and evolving, so it would make sense that my beliefs, thoughts, and dreams would follow the same pattern. I don’t ever want to be hard on any topic thinking I know about something for sure. If I do that then, I’m stuck in my belief system and not open to learning and growing. As Maya Angelou said “When you know better, you do better.”
We are all right where we need to be to get what we need. We are continually calling to ourself that which we most want to learn, heal, and evolve about ourself. We are all apart of this big evolutionary process. A process that I can now find absolutely amazing. I mean wow! Let’s just think about this for a minute. So all that “bad” stuff only helped to shape us into who we are. Those tough situations helped us grow confidence. We don’t have to make all those things bad. Some of the worst things that happen to us create the bounce into some of the best things of our lives. So how then can they be bad? Everything we go through is a step in the process, a scaffolding building upon itself. It’s all just a process. As Abraham Hicks says, “You never get it done and you can’t get it wrong.” Life is a journey, find joy in the journey.
We make our past experiences live in the present by making them mean something. Then they taint and shape our current life. When really those experiences come to us to teach us, heal us, and help us grow into who we want to be or even to just be more of who we really are. It is a calling forth to mirror to ourselves that which we most need to heal inside ourself.
So be easy about life. We make it hard. Take the negative and positive out of the situation and see if for what it is, an opportunity to heal and grow. Then continue to keep moving forward.