I have been a working Medium for over 20 years now and I have been very privileged to help people over issues and also over bereavement.
The hardest part for people is when they haven’t been able to resolve an argument or an outstanding issue with loved ones before they passed. This can be for various reasons, maybe the loved one has passed very quickly or the family member just didn’t get there in time. We do hear stories of loved ones hanging on before they pass to the spirit, basically its said that they will ‘Hang On’ and wait for loved ones to arrive.
When this situation happens, loved ones will want to come back to talk about the situation or to say sorry etc. They try there hardest to come back and this can also mean that they try to prove there presence around your home, they might try to move things, or they might actually appear in the bedroom or around the house. They always try their hardest to come back and prove a point.
Sometimes this isn’t always easy for people to understand and therefore they will want to visit a medium or they will ask a medium to visit there home. When this happens the medium will try to make contact with the loved one, they will ensure that any information that is passed on from the loved one will be communicated to the family member in a professional manner. Spirit are exactly the same people as they were when they where here, they still have the same sense if humour and will be able to talk to you about your past and about situation in your life that only you should know. What we must remember is that mediums are not fortune tellers, they want to prove life after death, they will pass on information that is provable and gives your names and dates, illnesses and also circumstances around you and them.
Never be afraid to ask a medium for more information, the more communication you get with a medium, the more information they will get. Basically think of it being a three way conversation with the medium being the telephone in the middle. The more you ask and want to know the more information they medium will get.
What we want to give you closure on a situation, we want to help you to move on in your life and be able to live and enjoy your life. Don’t hold onto the past as it holds us back and stops us ‘living’, the past is some we all have to experience to make us the people we are today.
I always says that to be a medium you need to have the experience of life, you need to be able to have empathy with people, you have to understand there situation in life. It isn’t easy to talk to someone about loosing a loved one unless you have experience this yourself.
I lost my mother some 7 years ago now, and when you loose someone close to you, you can understand the pain of a person who comes to you for help.
The one thing we must remember is that we are not counsellors, we are mediums that want to proof life after death. You have to know when the time is right to tell a person that you cant help them anymore and that they might need to speak to someone else.
Loved ones did care, and still do care about us!
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