Sometimes we get stuck in deep ego thoughts about making decisions and worry about what “I” (me) will get out of it.
One of the main purposes in life is to experience our soul’s mission with others. Each soul that comes into our life helps us learn why we are truly here. It is through our experiences and interactions that we “remember” why we came into this life and what we are meant to achieve while in our human form.
I believe we are all being called to truly live in our “real truths” which is we are all divine light here to be love, unite and help each other learn and grow in our soul’s progressions here on earth. We are being called to be peaceful warriors and to light the way so that we can inspire and encourage others to feel safe to shine their lights.
I always struggled with competiveness! As far back as I can remember in my lifetime, I never understood why we all just cannot live in peace and love each other for who we all are! I think the lesson and the reason we are living in this era is about standing together and sharing the lime light as a global team and to teach that we are all connected to the divine and that we as humans need to stop fighting about who is right and who is wrong and to be done with anything in this earth world that separates us from one another.
We live in a world with many truths and the key is to realize that it is safe to talk over the fence and that we do not have to rip it down to create peace with others.
For many years now, I have studied the connection between the ego and the higherself. In this time I have found a simple and easy way to make decisions that thinks in “WE”.
This quick process has positive outcomes and keeps us balanced on an everyday basis. I feel that it is time to share my little secret as it has guided me to the wonderful life I live today.
Listed below are the three questions I ask myself before making a decision:
- Am I about to take this action for my own benefit? (Whether the answer is yes or no, don’t do it!)
- Am I about to take this action for the benefit of someone else? (Whether the answer is yes or no, don’t do it!)
- Am I about to take this action for the benefit of all? (If the answer is yes, then do it! It is only when you equally value yourself as an individual, and the larger whole of the community, that your three selves are in balance and you are acting according to your purpose and authentic self.)
This process works in any area of your life. You will feel more comfortable with day-to- day decisions along with large decisions. This automatically gets you thinking in the “WE” rather than the “Me”.
Love, be love and unite!