When I ask them some questions it quickly becomes apparent that they are wanting something that they are not energetically lined up to.
When you think about what you are wanting, are you describing it as “over there” whilst wanting it and not thinking of it as “over here”? There is an implication in your definition of it that it is not here and it is “over there”; this is reflected energetically which perpetuates the gap between you and what you want.
When you are in your flow, in your groove, in ‘alignment’, you don’t think of it as being “over there”. There is no sense of gap and oftentimes you are so in your groove there is only a sense of here and now – you are the centre point of the Universe from your perspective.
Think about the time when you totally loved someone. Whether they were in your life at that moment or not, think about that time when you had a whole-body experience in feeling the emotions and so much love and appreciation for this person. Notice how you are so full of emotion that it was timeless and space less – there is only the here and the now.
The ‘gap’ of something being “over there” often appears when someone isn’t fully happy about what is “over here”. They are not fully at peace with the way things are or how their present is.
Make peace with the present. This is a way of closing the gap energetically.
When you are truly in your flow and BEING from where you want to be, energetically, paradoxically you actually aren’t thinking about your goal (not from a ‘lackful’ perspective anyway), you are too busy enjoying your present.
You will know this from your own experiences. It is almost like when you don’t ‘care’ about the outcome (it’s not that you don’t care, you do value it, it’s actually that you have less anxiety and negative emotions – ‘heaviness’ – connected to it, it feels lighter), you are too busy living your now, and ironically you are the most attractive to what you want at that point anyway.
What experiences do you have with this?
What examples do you have on when you have ‘let go’ and found yourself very attractive to the things that you have been wanting?
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