In my intuitive reading business, Angel Works, I encounter many people who struggle with anger and related issues. Mostly, they struggle with realizing they are angry in the first place. I guess it’s because anger traditionally has such a bad reputation; I mean only vengeful, awful and terribly mean people who cannot be the least bit happy are truly angry right? Assumptions about anger can be almost as harmful as the toxic and negative emotion itself.
Frequently, people believe that being angry means holding onto some deep seated grudge, behaving unkindly or wishing ill will towards another. It is actually much more simple than that and the truth is, anger in any form is harmful. From minute irritations and daily frustrations to rage; it is all the same from an energetic stand point. Emotions are tied to our thoughts, conscious or subconscious, and our thoughts are energy; each one attracting the same energy back to it. We have become so accustomed to living with and tolerating a certain level of anger that we often cannot even recognize it any longer.
If you are exposed to or engage in any form of anger (annoyance, resentment, fury, irritation, frustration, etc…), than you are indeed subject to the resulting problems that can occur. This emotion brings with it a lot of nasty possible issues including dis-ease, blocks to manifesting, relationship problems, addiction, health issues, and more. Not to mention the cycle of chaos it creates as anger will certainly always beget more anger over and over again until the cycle is broken. Make no mistake, letting minor frustrations build over time or allowing your fury over a wrong-doing fester will ultimately only serve to hurt you the most.
When you live with negative emotions, you are letting someone or something control your life. You cannot be in flow when you are blocked with anger, no exceptions, and it does not really take much to create a block. Without flow, our lives are out of balance and there can be no lasting harmony or joy. Since anger is almost always tied to the past (meaning something that happened in the past), we cannot be focused in the present making the experience of real joy impossible. The present moment is reality and where all of our power lies; anger takes it away from you.
Awareness is a key first step in dealing with it, but how can you truly over come pent up anger? As the old sayings go, “forgiveness heals” and “to forgive is Divine”. I am not talking about calling every person that hurt you and telling them they are forgiven. And I am also not suggesting that to forgive is to condone any harmful actions of another. To forgive is in essence to let go of all your toxic emotions about a person or situation while holding onto the lessons and love; only you and God or your angels need to be involved. Once you release all of the stored rage, you become free of it; free to live in the present moment. And experience lasting joy.
It may take some time depending on your circumstances, but it is the most loving thing you can do for yourself and everybody deserves to be healed. I conquered years of anger with the helpful guidance of my angels and today I am fulfilling my life’s purpose to help others do the same. I constantly forgive in the moment now to ensure nothing related to anger is able to reside in my heart and take me out of alignment with my higher self. God’s will is peace on Earth and the angels’ mission is to help each of us achieve inner peace. However, peace cannot exist where anger resides so living with it is essentially against with God’s will. Allowing yourself to heal by surrendering your anger is part of the path to peace on Earth; achieved one person at a time.
If you are struggling with defeating your anger, seek the guidance of your angels. We each have guardian angels whose purpose is to help whenever we ask for it. Simply ask and they will counsel you through your intuition and instincts. If you cannot hear them because of self-doubt or disbelief, you can obtain their messages in a reading from someone who can. For more information about angels and angelic guidance readings, visit www.ginasendef.com and click on the Angel Works tab.